As I gaze out this window and try to find words to describe what I see, I can choose between two words. I see either a hill or a mountain. Choosing which word to describe what I see is important for there is a great distinction between a mountain and a hill.
The words we use matter.
I want to propose a shift in some of the words we use when looking at sex abuse so that we can create a different possibility. Victim or survivor - Typically when we refer to someone who has