HEALTH CONSIDERATIONS FOR
THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED
By Robert Kroeger, DDS
Studies and surveys have documented the effects, both
physical and psychological, that sexual abuse can have. However these
consequences do not occur in all persons who have been abused: genetics,
personality, and other factors play a role in susceptibility.
Medical research on PNI (psychoneuroimmunology), done since the early
1990s, has shown evidence of mechanisms, which offer promise in prevention
of disease by behavioral methods.
The information in these pages provides additional assistance on your
journey of healing. There are two major things to consider: knowledge and
taking charge. Knowledge of how your body works and how it can resist
disease is essential in fighting the effects of sexual abuse. Taking charge
means that you assume the leadership role in all aspects of your
health. As a courageous survivor read as much as you can; learn from others
in your support group; visit doctors as needed - but remember you, as the
quarterback of your health care team, are responsible for your healing.
Knowing what the future can bring and learning about prevention will help
you to lead a long and happy life.
Dr. Bernie Siegel is a
retired surgeon who for many years used mind-body principles in his
practice. He labeled his cancer patients according to their attitudes: some
had poor attitudes for survival and most were only average patients. But, he
called about 15-20 percent of them, "exceptional cancer patients," meaning
that they took charge, questioned, learned, and took on the role of a
fighting survivor. The intent of this section of the website is to help you
to become an exceptional survivor of sexual abuse (ESSA).
Without knowledge and without a take-charge attitude, long-term health
effects of chronic stress will catch up and cause disease. That is
predictable. So, it's your choice.
I have divided this section into three parts: (1) statistics that
demonstrate what kind of effects on health sexual abuse can have, (2) the
mechanism that causes these effects in the body, and (3) ways to prevent
such adverse health problems.
STATISTICS
There have been studies and surveys of those who have been sexually
abused. However, it is uncommon for a hospital or a physician to screen for
sexual abuse (SA) so there is a lot unknown at the present about long-term
effects. For surveys to be successful, people must respond openly and
without fear. As you know, many SA survivors still carry shame and guilt and
are reluctant to divulge their past history. Some have this trauma repressed
into their subconscious and cannot remember. So the resulting data may be
reported on the low side.
Let's divide the statistics into three
categories: psychological problems, social problems and physical diseases.
The following are some aspects but may not include all problems associated
with SA.
Psychological problems that may ensue for those with SA
include: post-traumatic stress disorder (nightmares, flashbacks, intrusive
thoughts), anxiety, depression, suicide, phobias, panic attacks,
dissociative identity disorder, multiple personalities, self-mutilation,
anorexia nervosa, and bulimia (binging and purging food), sexual
dysfunction. Some persistent psychological issues seem to be lack of
self-love (poor self-esteem), guilt, worry, fear, anger, and helplessness.
Social problems can include drug abuse, alcohol abuse,
divorce, lack of ability to trust, social isolation, and violations of the
law. ESSAs work to overcome all of these obstacles.
Physical disease can be induced by lack of effective
management of chronic stress, which can be related to SA. Dr. Herbert
Benson, a Harvard cardiologist, has written extensively on the mind-body
interactions and has founded the Mind/Body Medical Institute in Boston. He
is a pioneer in mind/body wellness and wrote a classic book, The
Relaxation Response, in 1975. He is well respected in the medical
community and is a professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School.
His institute lists the stress-related diseases
he treats at his institute as: allergies, angina, arthritis, asthma, back
Pain, cancer, carpal tunnel syndrome, chest pain, chronic fatigue syndrome,
depression, diabetes, fibromyalgia, headache/migraine, heart disease,
hypertension, gastrointestinal illness, infertility, insomnia/sleep
disorders, joint pain, lupus and other autoimmune diseases, muscle tension,
palpitations/arrhythmias, perimenopause/menopause, rashes/skin problems,
shortness of breath, tinnitus (ringing in the ears), TMJ pain. Yes, all
those conditions can be caused by stress. People with SA who are affected
by chronic stress have a higher than average risk to develop
some of these conditions.
One of the most intriguing
diseases associated with SA is cancer. One study found that SA persons were
two and a half times more likely to develop cancer when compared to the
non-abused population.
Another study of 13,494
adults at an HMO showed that exposure to childhood trauma correlated with
health risk behaviors in adults and with the presence of serious diseases
leading to premature death, including cancer.
Keep in mind, while all these psychological, social, and physical
problems can seriously affect one's quality of life, they are not automatic
responses to SA. Whether sexually-abused people develop these depends on
many factors: their attitude, their physical fitness level, their genetics,
and their personality. While genetics may not be able to be controlled at
this time in this regard, the other factors can be consciously modified to
prevent these diseases and to allow one to live a normal and happy life, a
goal common to all ESSAs.
MECHANISMS OF PNI
PNI (psychoneuroimmunology) is a relatively new term in medicine, coined
by Dr. Robert Ader in 1975. This demonstrates some theoretical and some
actual pathways from the brain (psycho) through the nervous system (neuro)
to the immune system. Many, many researchers have been investigating these
pathways over the past 20 years and have discovered fascinating data and
facts that will help you to understand why the body can develop disease and
more importantly how to keep the body healthy.
First, stress is not a dirty word: rather it is a neutral event,
a random change in one's life. We all have changes daily. Without warning, a
car pulls out in front of you; you trip on a step and tear your clothes; a
store clerk is rude, etc. Some stresses have more meaning than others; the
death of a spouse, a close relative having cancer; a serious car accident.
Our health can be affected by how we interpret stress and how we manage
life's daily challenges.
When we are under stress, our brain sends neural messages via the
pituitary and adrenal glands to release cortisol, a chemical hormone that
can have a number of damaging effects on the body. Some of these effects
are: inactivate immune system, irritates stomach/intestines, stimulates
glucose production and the release of rennin.
Recently studies have shown that long-term release of cortisol can decrease
the activity of one's NK cells. These are cells that normally fight
infections and cancers. (Most people have some cancer cells inside them but
their NK cells are numerous and strong enough to keep the cancer from
growing.) The adrenal glands also release epinephrine during stress which
has several damaging effects: increases blood pressure and heart rate,
irritates G.I. tract, and increases blood cholesterol. This is called the
stress response.
The stress response of the body can be negative (distress) or positive (eustress).
We can also elicit the opposite response, called the relaxation response,
although this takes some training and discipline, especially in time of
extreme stress.
If we choose to view the stressful change as a challenge, then the
stress can help us to achieve great things. This called eustress, or good
stress. And it explains how professional athletes perform: they allow the
stress to motivate and inspire them. Look at the winners (Superbowl teams,
Tiger Woods, Roger Clemens, Lance Armstrong) – they all go through highly
stressful times of intense competition, often in front of millions of TV
viewers. However, sporting events last only a few hours to a few days. If
these competitions would last weeks or months, the athletes would be
mentally and physically drained. Most athletes balance their lives with
relaxation. The stress of SA can last a lifetime, if not controlled. ESSAs
can choose to control their stress, rather than being controlled by it.
If we choose to view the stress as a problem or hassle in our life, this
is called distress. This way, we may suffer from the negative side of
stress. Reactions to stress such as anger, guilt, worrying, fear can lead to
anxiety and depression. A lifetime of this will result in one's immune
system being depleted with the result of disease occurring.
Let's say that your spouse of 30 years has recently had a heart attack
and has had open-heart surgery. Thoughts of death enter the picture as the
medical treatment lasts for months. You become tired, losing energy daily,
and frustrated at this turn of events. Substitute a child, parent, or
another loved one and you begin to understand that the closer the stress is
to home, the harder it is to cope with effectively. A lifetime of dealing
with such stress, such as childhood SA, can take its toll on the body.
PNI studies have shown the following:
▪ cortisol interferes with NK cell activity and impairs wound healing
▪ meditation reduces cortisol significantly
▪ caregivers of people with Alzheimer’s disease have a high risk of getting cancer;
▪ women with greater social support had higher NK cell activity
▪ anxious moods are associated with lowered NK cell levels
▪ relaxation and guided imagery increase immune response in cancer patients.
There are two major
nervous systems in the body: the sympathetic and the parasympathetic. The
sympathetic system involves the release of hormones and chemicals that allow
the body to gear up for the flight or fight situation. (If you're being
attacked by a grizzly bear, you need lots of energy to escape.) But if these
chemicals linger for a long time, the body wears down and burns out. On the
other hand, the parasympathetic system allows the body to slow down and
rest. This system decreases blood pressure, slows breathing, enhances
digestion, and stops the flow of cortisol and other potentially harmful
chemicals.
So, the next time something causes stress in your life, understand that
you have choices in how you react to this change. You can let your
body go into distress (boo!), eustress (yea!), or the relaxation response
(yea, yea!). Learning effective stress management is critical in becoming a
conquering survivor of SA.
PREVENTION
The most important thing to understand is that the person who has
been sexually abused does not automatically develop disease. Modern
medicine focuses on diagnosis (testing, which can be time-consuming and
elaborate), treatment (may include surgery), and drugs (can be sophisticated
and expensive). However preventing the disease eliminates the need for all
three of these aspects of medicine. The rest of this section will explain
ways in which the SA survivor can help prevent health problems.
1. Learn and keep up to date on modern methods of behavioral ways
to deal with this issue. Books, the Internet, and friends are excellent ways
to keep current. Be wary of news items in the media - TV, movies, radio.
Many are misinformed and may be misleading.
2. Learn to practice deep relaxation at least two or three times a
day for 10-20 minutes a session. This is essential to stimulate your
relaxation response and to stop the flow of harmful cortisol. If you become
skilled in these methods, you may be able to avoid taking medicine to relax.
3. Complete the process of the three emotional roadblocks: worry,
fear, and anger. These cause distress and the secretion of cortisol. As
long as you remain stuck in these three reactions, your perpetrator still
has control. You can learn to experience these emotions safely.
4. Self-love. Separate out who is truly responsible for your
sexual abuse. Put the guilt where it belongs – on your perpetrator. You
are loveable. You are valuable. This might sound impossible, but
it is a vital part of the healing process and will help prevent illness.
5. Remember that your inner self-image is what is important. Our
external appearance is greatly impacted by what you think about yourself
inside. If you are unhappy with your external appearance, work on the
physical things you can, but focus on doing the internal work of discovering
the wonder of you!
6. Get in good physical condition. The better aerobic shape you
are in, the better your body can resist the damage of acute or chronic
stress. Run, swim, walk, or whatever you like to do to keep the healthy
hormones flowing.
7. Learn about nutrition and be disciplined. The food industry
flavors our food with fat, salt, and sugar, which is not in the best
interest of our health. An excellent book is The Three Hour Diet by
Jorge Cruise. This approach stresses eating small meals every three hours.
It is based on common sense and it works. Avoid fad diets, which come around
every six months: they don't work over the long haul.
8. Find something important to get involved in: become passionate
about something positive and invest some of yourself in the issue.
9. Be selective about the type and length of
television programs you watch. Most shows feature violence and negative
reactions to stress: anger, frustration, worrying, etc. That can reinforce
what you are working to change. Consider reading a book or take a walk.
10. Approach things from a positive perspective. Process the
experience or thought, and strive to identify a positive possibility. Avoid
using the words, “no,” “can’t,” and “have to.”
11. Join a support group and gain energy by knowing that others
share your same problems and concerns. Don't isolate, there is healing in
relationship.
12. Faith. PNI studies show that belief in God, religious meaning, and belonging to religious groups all improve immune function. For some, this means learning new truths about who God is in spite of what happened to you.
13. Have Fun. Take a Break. Even if it’s for one hour. Do something fun.
14. Find a Soothing Activity. Perhaps a bubble bath with scented candles around you; perhaps writing; perhaps drawing; perhaps doing a crossword puzzle, whatever brings you a moment of peace.
15. Sleep. Get in a routine of a normal sleep cycle. It will increase your energy level; will stop the epinephrine and cortisol flow; will enhance your immune system.
17. Do something good for someone and don’t tell anyone about your good deed. This will boost your self-esteem tremendously as well as making the world a little nicer place.
18. Walk or run in a 5K. OK, so you won’t finish first; you probably won’t finish last, either. And, if you do, that’s OK. The exercise is what counts!
19. Celebrate reaching goals. Start wherever you can – even if it is for the day, and even if it appears small. Planning, stretching and focusing forward bring satisfaction.
RESOURCES
There are many excellent websites on stress management on the Internet.
The following are sites of three important medical pioneers of PNI and
self-healing: Dr. Herbert Benson, Dr. Carl Simonton, and Dr. Bernie Siegel.
I WOULD HIGHLY RECOMMEND THAT YOU INCLUDE READING A
BOOK BY EACH OF THEM. IT WILL HELP YOU SIGNIFICANTLY TO COUNTERACT THE
EFFECTS OF SEXUAL ABUSE IN AN EFFORT TO REMAIN HEALTHY THE REST OF YOUR
LIFE. THEIR BOOKS AND TAPES CAN HELP YOU TO FIGHT THE LONG-TERM EFFECTS OF
SA-INDUCED STRESS AND PREVENT DISEASE.
Herbert Benson, MD. Dr. Benson is a cardiologist who found that he
could teach his patients to lower their blood pressure by using meditation.
His patients could often reduce the amount of high blood pressure medication
and sometimes eliminate it entirely by meditating three times a day. Dr.
Benson became interested in fighting the effects of distress and founded the
Mind/Body Medical Institute in Boston, which has a large staff for treatment
of many stress-related diseases. Dr. Benson is on the staff of Harvard
Medical School and commands respect in the medical community: a chair in his
name will be dedicated at Harvard when he retires, which is an honor
reserved for a select few. His first book, The Relaxation Response,
discusses stress, stress management, and his early work, which includes a
meditative technique. His other books are also worth reading, especially
Timeless Healing. Meditation is a simple, inexpensive and effective way
to manage long-term chronic stress. Two or three times a day will reduce
disease.
Website: www.mbmi.org.
Books: The Relaxation Response, Timeless Healing, etc.
O. Carl Simonton, MD. Dr. Simonton, a
radiology oncologist (cancer doctor) by training, became interested in mental
strategies for fighting cancer in the late 1960s. He was the first physician
to use guided imagery to help cancer patients. He treated his first patient
with guided imagery in 1971 – a terminal throat cancer patient who was
given only a few months to live. By practicing imagery three times a day, in
combination with radiation therapy, the patient lived and his cancer
disappeared, surprising everyone. Even though you may not have cancer,
please be aware that SA survivors have a greater than average risk to
develop this disease. By using Dr. Simonton's tapes or CDs on a daily basis,
you can learn how to mobilize your body's defense system to prevent not only
cancer, but other diseases as well. Research studies have shown that
terminal cancer patients have doubled their survival times by such an
approach. His book, Getting Well Again, is a classic.
Website: www.simontoncenter.com
Books: Getting Well Again.
CDs: Getting Well (2 CD package)
Bernie Siegel, MD. In 1978 Dr. Bernie Siegel, a surgeon, took a
workshop given by Dr. Simonton that changed his life and his practice of
surgery. He became much more concerned with the person behind the body and
learned about stress management, incorporating it into his profession. He
also has found a significant link with religion and healing. His books and
tapes have helped thousands of patients.
Website: http://www.ecap-online.org
Books: Love, Medicine, & Miracles. 101 Exercises for the Soul.
365 Prescriptions for the Soul.
FINAL NOTE: By now, if you have read this entire section, I hope you have a
better understanding of long-term effects of stress, diseases associated
with distress, and how, as a survivor of SA, you can help prevent these
diseases.
Not long ago, this information was not available. Even today, many surveys may not be accurate because SA persons may not report their past history. But slowly the shame and stigma about SA will leave our society and data will be reported so that the medical profession can better serve this population.
As a survivor, you can get proactively involved in denying the stress the
power to cause physical illness. You can take charge, utilize resources
available and participate in healing yourself through prevention.
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